Have you been attracting toxic people all your life? In school, in college, at workplace and home? Do you end up listening to mindless negative blabber that affects your positive spirit? Do you think it is rude to walk away from people in false distress? If your answers are yes, then the problem is in you. Do walk away, walk out and let go of negative people.
In case you are wondering that your toxic friend might be depressed and dependent on you for support then please understand the difference.
A toxic person injects his misery into others while a depressed person generally injects it to himself. A depressed person would like to be isolated and walk away from attention while toxic people want to be unhappy and want others to share the unhappiness with them.
If you try to be happy in their presence, they will ensure to make you feel guilty about it. And mind you, they generally succeed in their deception for a long time!They revel in making others unhappy in every possible way or if one dares to break free then he is termed mean, bad and an unworthy friend.
So, if you are this sunny personality and prone to toxic attack, then do not get manipulated due to your vulnerability. Differentiate between real misery and attention seeking drama of toxic personalities. Value your time and positive spirit! Walk out, walk fast!
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Excellent post, Shivangi!
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Thank you so much Tonya😀🤗
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You’re very welcome!! 🙂
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❤️
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I agree! Toxic people infect you with their negativity. It’s better to walk away.
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Right… nicely put in… thank you so much🤗
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It’s that kind of lean and mean writing which removes guilt from letting go. Also, optimised and crafted very well, not a word more than needed. Enjoyed.
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Thank you so much Abhay😀🙏🏻
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Beautiful post Shivangi……
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Thank you Sudhir😀
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Really
It is happening everywhere so we have to take care of this things
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Yes… very true. Thank you 😀
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Welcome ma’am
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A nice post. Relationships are complex and it is not easy to deal with toxic people. There are some relationships which are more difficult because it’s not so easy to close the door and say goodbye. They may be unlikely to change, but you can. You have rightly said “walk out”. If walking out straight isn’t possible due to complexity of the relationship, then it’s better to limit your time with that person and ghost out of the relationship — and don’t look back.
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Very nicely written Sir, I agree hundred percent. Limiting time gradually from complex relationship would work better. Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts😀
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🙂
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True.. must walk out as quickly as possible from the toxic people
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Right Akhila…we stop thinking that they need us but it is not true. Thank you🙏🏻
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Great post! This is so very true!
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Yes PJ… thank you🤗
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A great post with deep insight!!
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Thank you Gourav😀
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Welcome shivangi
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I agree…we should know when to say a NO watsoever rather than getting infected by the sulky people….great thought…
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Thank you Neha😀
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Such a strong message Shivangi. Yes when negative people are around we tend to think more about them & then this negative cycle continues. So better to walk away asap.
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Right Bhavna. Thanks for coming over😀
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Such a great post dear 🖒🖒
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Thank you 😀
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Great advice. I seem to attract those who need a listening ear ever so often and after a while I tune in to the fact that they are simply miserable and can never be happy because they enjoy their misery and drama. Walking away is the best solution.
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True Jacqueline 😀👏
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Excellent post! I completely agree with you! I just wrote an article myself about how decluttering toxic people from your life is so important. It was a coincidence I saw your post as well in the newsfeed! My name is also so similar to yours!! Double coincidence. I am a follower!
Here’s my article too if you’re interested:
https://organizational-bliss.com/2017/09/28/26-toxic-things-and-people-ive-learned-to-declutter-in-26-years/
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Thank you for coming and sharing. I will love to read it😀
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Depression is definately very different. And thank you for the post. It seems I do attract toxic people 😂 I am depressed so always want to help others so they don’t feel the same. This has unfortunately led to me attracting quite a few liars and attention seekers who often damaged me and betrayed me in the end.
I wrote a post on how to help a depressed person on http://www.luthienthegreen.wordpress.com take a look if you like!
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Toxic people consume your time and belittle you too. Would definitely come over to read yours. Thanks much for sharing 😀
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Yes, sadly they do! And thanks!
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Shivangi this is post most necessary to be known.
You have given enough suggestions to be safe from these people.
Shiva
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Thank you so much Shiva😀
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