I am a visa wife. This means I am on a dependent visa while my husband is on H1B work visa in the US. My Visa is in H4 category, which is regressive to say the least. Now, while the techies are reeling due to uncertainities over H1B Visa Bill, which might become an act under President Donald Trump’s administration, I secretly rejoice.
It is also being rumoured that work permits of H4 visa holders, which was a part of 2015 Department of Homeland Security initiative by former President Barack Obama, might change. This means visa wives would not be allowed to earn any kind of income and may be restricted to cooking, cleaning and volunteering. In short, a completely dependent entity – emotionally, socialy and economicaly.
I truly believe that US is a great country to live but if the work permit for H4, is cancelled, it would be a curse for Indian women, who accompany their husbands at the cost of their own ambitions. My stay in the US has been smooth and filled with happiness so far. And I had plans to be economically independent when my kids grew up a bit but under the present scenario, I find hope in returning to India.
It wouldn’t have mattered if being a dependent was optional, but when one is forced into shadows, it’s unfair.
If things change, I dream of going back and being surrounded by family and friends. Then, there will be the lovely Indian Maid – Kaam wali bai, whom I have missed almost every day!
Technology is here to stay and techies are like minions. They will find a big boss sometime soon even if there are job cuts due to the overhaul. They will not perish.
Truly speaking, it might be better for husbands if they stay in the US because work conditions are nicer here. Even kids are better off in the US. But for silently cooking and cleaning visa wives, who are away from society and independence, going back to India would always be great.
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So true!!
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Thank you dear😀
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I wish it to be a rumour only.
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Let’s see Seenu. Thank you for coming over😀
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Keep your fingers crossed.
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I feel you 🙂 I am on dependent visa myself
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We are in the same boat. Thanks a lot for coming over 😀
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And here i am who happily declined GC request from my firm 2 years back. I will be hitting H1 visa limit in June and now looking forward to leaving the country after 6 glorious years.
All my choice, no regrets, as i believe you can rise and shine anywhere if you are capable!
As for H4: In a foreign country, you are bound by their rules…think of it that way!
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Great to know that Alok. So glad for you. As for H4, I was fine when work permit was there but revoking it would be unfortunate. I respect the rules but we all know that H4 is said to be a little too much😀
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I can imagine. I never worried about H4 as my wife is a writer too, and she earns pretty good with Blogging.
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How great is that! How do you earn that way? I have been struggling with free ebooks because we are not allowed to earn.
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One has to get popular, genuinely! She has been consistent for over 5 years and has a good following on Social Media.
She writes regularly for many companies too. You can check her at sarusinghal.com
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Great Alok. Thank you for the information😀😀😀
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The Trump regime has come in unexpectedly, like the Brexit now set to be a reality in couple of years from now. Always be open to changes in life, Shivangi. If coming back home is not all that alluring, countries such as Canada and Australia are open to receiving people.
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Thank you Sir for your lovely advice – We shall try to be open to change. So kind of you…
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I’m sorry to hear that you and your husband’s visas are under certain scrutiny. I get the feeling you are secretly hoping to get to go back to India. I truly hope it works out the way you and your husband hopes that it works out Shivangi. I can tell you that the U.S. is much better with you and your husband and children in it.
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That is the sweetest thing anyone has ever told us. People like you make America a great place to live, PJ. Hope this country never ever loses its greatness and peace.
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Ahh, that is really sweet. America really is a great place! Unfortunately, right now we are having some hiccups.
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Yes PJ… thanks a lot 😀
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kyu chodna chahti hon U.S?kitne logon ko milte hai aisi luck.Lagta hain tumare dil abhi bhi tumaere gaon mein hai. 🙂
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Wo to hai hi😀
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How is adi and vir?kis class pe hein donom?
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Ache hain. Ek kg mein dusra two years ka hai abhi😀
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So true.. I am also on a dependant Visa although not in USA but can totally related to the agony of remaining unemployed as a compulsion rather than a choice
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Well said… thank you for coming over dear Prajakta😀
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Have nominated you for the blog aholic award ..check my latest post.☺
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Hey dear thanks a lot. I am so grateful to you for thinking of me. As for a post on the award, I may or may not be able to write a post on it. But I want you to accept my heartfelt gratitude.😀😀😀
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I have so many friends who have been hit by this situation and it’s just sad. My former neighbours in Houston are from India and I know that the wife (who by the way studied Engineering) wasn’t too happy being in the shadows. As a traveling wife who follows hubby about, I know just how difficult these situations can be on the wives. I hope it all works out for the best.
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I am glad you know Jacqueline. Thank you so much😀
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