Leave Off Your Works, Bride – Relive the romance of yore!

Today, as I sat reading poetry, I came across this sublime love poem by Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore. The beauty of “Leave off Your Works, Bride” is such that it took me back in time…in the days of our grandparents, when it was not easy for couples to meet or romance. There were customs, family traditions, disapproving elders and unwritten rules that were to be observed before the consummation of an arranged marriage. Love marriage was out of question!

The poem talks about the period of anticipation that precedes the onset of romance between newly weds in a traditional arranged marriage set up.

It is a part of ‘The Gardener’, a lesser known love poem collection than the spiritual ‘Gitanjali'(1913), for which Tagore was awarded the Nobel Prize in literature. Both were published in the same year – 1913, but ‘Gitanjali’ received an overwhelming response and the latter got overshadowed. Nevertheless, ‘The Gardener’ is great in its own way. And “Leave off Your Works, Bride” underscores my observation.

The verses evoke gentle and deep romance of the yore. It takes us into one of those ancient Bengali households, where a bride awaits her guest ( husband). The poet is encouraging her to welcome the guest (husband) but the bride seems shy, reluctant and nervous. The poet gives well meaning advices to her, asking her to leave all work and win over him. He is trying to lessen the awkwardness of first meeting between husband and wife in their first meeting. The poem abounds in imagery. It is as if Tagore, the artist-poet, is painting with words.

What made me fall in love with this song is one particular imagery – a veiled beautiul bride, holding a lamp, consumed with contrasting emotions, getting ready to meet her unknown husband!

Enjoy the poem and interpret this classic in your own way!

Leave off Your Works Bride – RABINDRANATH TAGORE

Leave off your works, bride. Listen, the guest has come.
Do you hear, he is gently shaking the fastening chain of the door?

Let not your anklets be loud, and your steps be too hurried to meet him.

Leave off your works, bride, the guest has come, in the evening.
No, it is not the wind, bride. Do not be frightened.

It is the full-moon night of April, shadows are pale in the court-yard, the sky overhead is bright.

Draw your veil over your face if you must, take the lamp from your room if you fear.

No, it is not the wind, bride; do not be frightened.         
Have no word with him if you are shy, stand aside by the door when you meet him.

If he asks you questions, lower your eyes in silence, if you wish.

Do not let your bracelets jingle, when, lamp in hand, you lead him in.

Have no word with him if you are shy.
Have you not finished your works yet, bride? Listen, the guest has come.            

Have you not lit the lamp in the cowshed?

Have you not got ready the offering basket for the evening service?

Have you not put the auspicious red mark at the parting of your hair, and done your toilet for the night?

         O bride, do you hear, the guest has come?

         Have you not finished your works yet?

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31 thoughts on “Leave Off Your Works, Bride – Relive the romance of yore!

  1. sherinsk

    Nowadays such bride and bridegroom meetings are rare right?I mean internet has changed everything right?Also i think brides these days are more smarter than the bridegroom 🙂

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  2. It’s a very evocative poem. I Appreciated your explanation of the situation because I’m not sure I would have quite understood it otherwise. I could imagine the bride’s reaction very clearly now once I got the set up.

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  3. I cannot even imagine what it would feel like to be in this situation. I understand that arranged marriages are not that common in India anymore. I had an Indian friend that had an arranged marriage but it didn’t last long (so she said).

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    1. Yes, PJ it is not that common but it is still quite common. I and my friends, almost all have had arranged marriages but these days we interact and get to know our spouse better. In the past, husbands and wives never met before marriage. In our societal set up, it is a normal procedure… Not only the bride and bridegroom but I guess both the families marry… It is difficult to imagine I know! But believe me I think there is stability in this set up coz of so many people involved. Thank you for reading. Stay blessed!

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      1. That’s very interesting Shivangi. At least now days they get to interact with each other more before they actually marry and I think that also helps to make marriages stronger. But what you said about so many people being involved helps make the marriages successful makes sense!

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        1. Thank you PJ… Yes it helps a great deal to interact before marriage… Sort of dating! And the families help in keeping the marriages strong but they can also come across as interfering… the line in between has to be observed. There are a lot of positive as well as negative aspects too. I will go deeper, perhaps in another post !Have a great weekend, dear!

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          1. Woh to ekdam basic wali aati hai. Aapke blog pe kitne fancy words hai, utna nahi aata. Main to Gujarati medium school mein padha tha. Aap hamein bata sakte hai aap English medium school mein gaye the ya nahi. Aur agar muje angreji sudharni hai to kya kar sakta hun .

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            1. Hum bhi small town wale hain. Aap books parhiye English classics aur blogs likhte rahiye… apne aap better ho jayega. Hum bhi itne ache writer nahi hai par ache books parhne se fark parta hai😀


    1. Sherin, I have done masters in literature… hence the heavy words. I think best writing is when you convey your thoughts to the readers… And that can be done in very simple English. Fancy words do not matter much😀

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    1. No, I was never bold I was just adventurous and experimental. Now, I am still creative but restricted until my kids grow up a bit😀. I love language so I did literature. I love Hindi too and some of my Hindi works got published in Hindi newspaper.

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